Its something Ive never been very good at. I guess a lot of Mums are like that.
Cook a meal for 12 with an hours notice?.....Sure no problem
Look after little Johnny (spawn of the devil) for a week while you go to Barbados?.....Id love to
Wash the school football teams mud encrusted kit every week?.....Send it my way
Recently however Ive learnt to say 'NO' and its so liberating. It feels vaguely naughty and selfish but so less stressful.
The next move is to start to ask others to do things for me.....I shall grit my teeth and gird my loins and go for it !